You might have come across the popular saying that reads that ‘no enemy is worse than bad advice.’ Yes, when you have decided your first date with a male partner, you might surely be interested in gathering some useful tips on what men expect and how to take your relationship eternal. Rather than getting some useful tips from a lady, the best thing you can do is to get some advice from a man as men alone knows what other men think as compared to women. So, here are some useful dating tips from a man for all those ladies planning for their dating:
1. Be yourself:
Women alone think that they should be the universe for their men. But, men generally hate this type of approach from women. So, do not let a man become the focal point of your universe. When you do this, rather than increasing his desire and interest towards you, he will lose interest as he will feel smothered. Men generally expect their lady to be dynamic with their own interests and passions in life and want them to make a part of their lady’s life. Men generally are attracted towards women, who are confident, and they love interdependence approach as against their lady wholly relying on them. So, never miss out your own appointments and stick to them, he will actually love it.
2. Some men are hesitant about commitment:
You might have decided just within a couple of meetings that he is going to be your man. But, you cannot expect him to arrive at such quick decisions. Some men are really afraid of commitments, but once they are committed, they wish to stick to it as much as possible. He might question whether you really want to be in a relationship with him or with some other person. So, besides giving him some time to decide, you should also take the time to decide whether he is the right person for you to take up the relationship to eternity.
3. Do not call him all the time, let him call you:
You might be thinking he might love getting calls and texts from you. But, in reality, men generally do not want their lady to keep calling and texting, and they want the communication to be balanced. If you both are interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the level of communication. Rather than calling him again and again, give him a chance to call to show his interest towards you. If you feel guilty that you are frequently calling him, just give a break; see if the call comes back. If yes, it is really wonderful, if it does not move on mate! You will get someone, who loves to keep in touch with you always.
Besides these things, you should not assume that you are exclusive as men simply hate this type of attitude. So, let your relationship blossom!